The only way to break out of a lifestyle of
"doing whatcha always have done" and
"getting whatcha always gotten" is to create a joyful path to a better way of doing things!
Yes, there is some "pain" in changing habits, but as in the movie, "Oh God, you devil," things come in pairs of opposites: hot-cold, good-bad, pain-pleasure, etc., and without the experience of the pain of creating a new path, one can usually not fully experience the pleasure of a new and better paradigm!